Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. We tolerate bad behavior and bad relationships for far too long. I am often amazed to hear what my clients and readers tolerate in a marriage, and how they feel guilty for even having thoughts of ending the relationship.
Annisia Batra with husband Mayank Singhvi. She worked with the German airline Lufthansa and came from an educated family. Yet, Anissia remained caged in a marriage that, friends and family now confirm, was abusive right from the word go. Singhvi beat her up in the room and lobby of the hotel they were staying at.
According to friends and family, the marriage was abusive from day one. Why do families not speak up and not stand up for their daughters in time? It is important to ask these questions because Annisia is not the only woman who chose to remain in a marriage that left her dead.
Whether she killed herself or has been murdered is a question best left to the investigators but the fact that either way, it was clearly an unhappy, abusive marriage that claimed her life is a point we can miss at our own peril.
Ina Delhi-based doctor Chandra Vibhas Sahu killed his wife Supriya Tussar, who had both a BTech and a Masters degree, after reports of prolonged torture during their month-long marriage.
At the time of the murder, Supriya had landed a job promising her a salary of Rs 85, per month. Before finally killing her, Sahu had thrown Supriya into a mental asylum. She was rescued by her parents. But surprisingly, the parents then asked Supriya and Sahu to sort out their differences and give their marriage another chance.
Newspapers almost everyday are throwing at us stories of women killing themselves or getting killed in marriages over sundry issues. And yet, women and their families are choosing to look the other way, as if getting beaten up by the person you are married to or his family is just as normal as eating, drinking or sleeping.
Many women suffer in marriages because they do not have the financial resources to sustain themselves. The situation gets further complicated when there are children to be taken care of. Families also do not ask these women to return because they often do not have the means to provide for their daughters.
India has lived with these problems but there was growing hope that with women getting educated and building careers and lives for themselves, they would be able to walk out of abusive marriages.
Annisia's story has a lesson for evey women. The Batra family has lost its daughter and this is a time of tragedy for them. Your life is more precious than any marriage.
Staying alone is not impossible. Rather, it is a hundred times better than being in a bad marriage. And why should women think that they will have to live alone, if they walk out of a bad relationship?
You have the whole world of opportunities open to you. All you need to do is believe in its beauty. Use your education and your financial independence to build a better life for yourselves.In Hindu astrology the person believed to have mangal ruling have to perform a long religious journey at the beginning of the year.
This will bring happiness and prosporous in mangal life their lifestyles and spouses. It is believed to be unfavorable for marriages, causing discomfort and tension in relationship, leading to severe disharmony among .
Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs are authors, speakers, and Biblical counselors, not LPC's. Their writings include the widely used book I Do Again, which chronicles their thirty-year story of marriage, betrayal, infidelity, divorce, emotional damage and scarring, forgiveness, reconciliation, trust, and remarriage to each other.
In Hindu astrology the person believed to have mangal ruling have to perform a long religious journey at the beginning of the year. This will bring happiness and prosporous in mangal life their lifestyles and spouses. It is believed to be unfavorable for marriages, causing discomfort and tension in relationship, leading to severe disharmony among the spouses and eventually to other bigger.
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Several aspects of responsive parenting have been associated with the development of secure attachments. Delhi air hostess Anissia Batra's death: Why empowered Indian women still feel forced to stay in bad marriages Newspapers almost everyday are throwing at us stories of women killing themselves or.
Wow! Getting caught up in your site. Again this article is a gem in many ways. Makes me reflect on my own mariage and couple experiences. I have a tendency to look at the big picture and see our lives merely as puppets in the hands of nature which seems to .